How will you know?
Here are, according to this MSN article, 10 facts about love. Some are interesting, some obvious, and some just plain strange. My favorite and something that rang true for me is definitely number:
3. You’ll know it when you see it. A recent study at the University of Pennsylvania reveals that regardless of what people say they are looking for in a dating situation, they don’t need a lot of time with or information about a person to tell if they’re interested. Single people’s behavior suggests that individuals know “it” (a person who appeals to them) when they see it—almost instantly. Lead researcher Robert Kurzban and his colleagues studied data from 10,000+ daters. They found that men and women assessed potential compatibility within moments of meeting, using primarily visual cues such as age, height, and attractiveness. Says Kurzban, “Somewhat surprisingly, factors that you might think would be really important to people — like religion, education, and income — played very little roles in their choices.”
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i thought #4 was the most interesting. so basically i should look for a gal with an unsexy voice if she's to be the one... but then again, i'm supposed to know her when i see her.
They found that the voices found to be the most appealing belonged to people who had sex at an earlier age, had more sexual partners, and were more prone to infidelity than those rated as having less appealing voices. So know that what’s a seductive voice to you may be linked to a person with a bit of a past
What's interesting is the big difference how men and women check each other out when in a social environment.
Women scan the room, but then select maybe one or just a small number of men she is interested in.
Men constantly look at almost all the women, waiting for a female to return the gaze. When she obliges, he knows she's interested and approaches her.
In other words, women are more selective. Men really just look for willingness.
When it comes to evolution and genes - it really all makes sense to do it this way.
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