Tuesday, February 27, 2007

I'm so Special

MSNBC Article discussing the rise of Narcissicism and its negative effects on relationships in society.

“Unfortunately, narcissism can also have very negative consequences for society, including the breakdown of close relationships with others,” he said.

The study asserts that narcissists “are more likely to have romantic relationships that are short-lived, at risk for infidelity, lack emotional warmth, and to exhibit game-playing, dishonesty, and over-controlling and violent behaviors.”

This is my generation, and even as I'm typing this, I realize that I'm internalizing all these feelings, as if I've been attacked. I don't think that telling our youth and children that they are special is creating little monsters with no concept of empathy. Of course we run the risk, but when parents nurture their children, their abilities, and instill moral concepts from an early age, I think this dampens the danger. Or maybe that's just a function of growing up in this generation. I'm pretty sure we'd be much worse off if we started demeaning our children and telling them they're just a dime a dozen.

Monday, February 26, 2007

To Love, Honor, and Perish

My favorite, John Waters, is blowing UP these days. Basically, he's starring in a new Court TV show as the "groom reaper" about spousal murders. I have no doubt that this is going to be groundbreaking murder mystery programming. March 19th cannot come soon enough.

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Bluth Boys Reunited and it Feels So Good

Jason Bateman and Michael Cera star together again. This time in a film about teenage pregnancy. George Michael as a baby daddy and Michael Bluth as an emotionally stunted husband; who'd have imagined that after Arrested Development? I knew that Michael Cera had signed onto this project, but adding in Jason Bateman is going to put the icing on this cake. Especially with Ellen Page in the mix.

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Blame it on the Rain...

Milli Vanilli! I know someone who is going to be STOKED about this project. I was just talking about Milli Vanilli and now there's going to be a movie in development. Let's cross our fingers that this comes to fruition.

Now I leave you with some classic Milli Vanilli lyrics, to get you as pumped up as I am.

You said you didn't need her,
you told her goodbye.
You sacrificed a good love
to satisfy your pride.
Now you wish that you still had her,
and you feel like such a fool.
You let her walk away,
now it just don't feel the same.
Gotta blame it on something,
gotta blame it on something.
Blame it on the rain that was fallin', fallin'.
Blame it on the stars that shine at night.
Whatever you do, don't put the blame on you;
blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah.
You can blame it on the rain.

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Zach Braff=Elliott Smith???

Unlike 'The Music Slut', who actually seems to be routing for Zach Braff to play Elliott Smith in a biopic, I think this is a disaster. I like Zach well and good; he's got talent, ability, and he's easy on the eyes, but playing Elliot Smith? I don't think so. Please let this not happen. And while we're at it, let me just say I hate the idea of Kirsten Dunst as Debbie Harry too, which I recently read was happening. To add to that, Michel Gondry (Eternal Sunshine, Science of Sleep) is possibly taking on this project. Why would he do this after two great movies? I cannot understand Kirsten Dunst's appeal at all.

February 14th...

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I hope you all enjoy your Valentine(s).

Sunday, February 11, 2007

John Waters Serenade.....

Although my main man John Waters is looking a little old in this bit, this is the best thing I've ever heard. All the more reason that album is mine.

Saturday, February 10, 2007

SF Gate article on Prop 83, which is a voter passed law saying that sex criminals may not live within 2,000 feet of a school or park. Basically it's talking about how the ruling doesn't apply retroactively. We had a huge argument about this in Criminal Law last semester. Of course we want to keep our children and families safe, but these sex offenders have served their time for their crimes. Constitutionally, this seems like the right thing to do and I agree with it. My shock came with the knowledge that there are apparently 90,000 California registered sex offenders.

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Will My Valentine Please Show Up with This?

Enough said. No worries folks, it's a safe for work link. And it has to do with my favorite director Mr. John Waters.

LOST...Not quite a spoiler

I am stoked my favorite Hawaii based television show has resumed its third season. I enjoyed last night's episode and the Juliet focused flashbacks. She is definitely one of my favorite new characters and I think the episode was a great way to get back into the story. I won't say any more about plot, for those of you who haven't seen it, but do look out for the guest appearance of Rob McElhenney best known for this role as Mac on another show that I enjoy It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Hodge Podge

MSNBC article about Ehren Watada the Hawaii soldier who refused to deploy. He's gotten himself a mistrial, but it's obvious that this isn't over. I'll be keeping my eyes on this issue though.

MSNBC article discussing a New York state Senator's desire to ban iPods, cell phones, and Blackberrys while crossing the street in the city. The proposed punishment is not only $100 fine, but also a criminal summons. Can we say worst idea ever?

SF Gate article about Mayor Gavin Newsom's "drinking problem". Interesting that the story of his affair with his campaign manager's wife came out just about a week ago and now all of a sudden he's getting help for his alcohol addiction. Maybe he does have a problem and that is certainly unfortunate, but doesn't this smell like the Mark Foley scandal from 2006? Why I'll never pursue a career in politics...

Monday, February 05, 2007

Hawaii: Duel Perspectives

This blog post was recently brought to my attention. "What's the deal with Hawaii?" it says and really not much more than that. Besides noticing that Hawaii is most often known for tourism, pineapples, and pidgin English, rather than being an economic powerhouse, what's the deal with that blog? Is it suggesting that Hawaii should be something different since it's not living up to its economic potential? That nothing important, intellectual, or educated stems from the unique perspective that Hawaii provides? The only comment worth reading that I think maybe even starts to address a real issue of why Hawaii might not be an economic powerhouse is this:

With regard to Hawaii's relatively poor economic performance, could the psychological effects of isolation factor be a major cause? A close friend of mine just moved back to the mainland after 6 years in Honolulu. She and her husband loved the climate and relaxed pace of life (the latter being a product of the non-ambitious economy, right?), but they got sick of traveling hours and hours by air to visit family members, sick of being so geographically confined on one island, sick of the general lack of standard US amenities (apparently, there's no Target, which is frankly astonishing), and basically just sick of the feeling of being cut off from the mainstream of American life.

That "cut off" feeling can be seductive and appealing if you're not ambitious (or have already enjoyed a successful career and are ready to retire), but in the long run it will turn off those who seek high achievement.

When you combine the isolation with a climate that encourages recreation - who wants to stay inside and slog over the books when you can be playing outside in gorgeous weather EVERY DAY? - it's not surprising that Hawaii is not a hotbed of entrepreneurialism. And that means, in the modern economy, that it will not be likely to enjoy significant material success.
This quote (with the disclaimer that the anonymous author has never lived in Hawaii) may be the only thing on there that captures something without a racist, classist, or completely asinine motivation.


Compare that with this article also speaking of the economics of Hawaii. This admittedly concentrating on the social injustice of my highschool's annual Carnival. Here's a prize-winning quote
Rich people only get rich one way: exploiting other people – the people who have no choice but to send their kids to Washington Intermediate, or the people who take out student loans to go to college, or the people who work 12-hour swing shifts at Cheesecake Factory.

When you consider going to that carnival again this year, consider this: the fun you get out of the Punahou Carnival is just a side effect of them making money. This carnival, no matter what the local establishment and the local news media want you to believe, is not put on just for your enjoyment. Like every other construct of the ruling class, the Punahou Carnival is there to take your money and keep you locked into servitude and insolvency.
I don't want to pick on this author too much, considering the 100+ comments he's already collected, most of which are cruel (though accurate), but please, my goodness, it's a carnival, it's fun and games, it supplies money for scholarships so students can afford to go to Punahou; it's also staffed by the students and parents of Punahou. Punahou Carnival is an amazing event that brings families, friends, and strangers together. I have fond memories of working the booths, eating the food, and participating in variety show. Don't make me feel like a cog in a vicious scheme to victimize those who are less fortunate when that couldn't be further from the truth.

EDIT: I strongly suggest reading the comments to The Ka Leo article, we've (and I say we've, because it does feel like an attack on the Punahou community) gotten support from Iolani and a whole host of others who respectfully, and not so respectfully, disagree with everything said in the "article".

Thursday, February 01, 2007

Personal Review of the Sarah Silverman Program

I missed the first five minutes, but I thought the rest was brilliant. Ms. Silverman has the amazing ability of pulling off that repulsive innocence. I could so without the scat humor, but Doug the dog and the "moral" lessons are just hilarious. I see great things for the future of this program. Unfortunately, I thought the same thing of Stella and now that's gone. Give the show a chance and let me know your thoughts.

Should you set your TiVo tonight?

The series debut of The Sarah Silverman Program is tonight. This promises to be notorious, especially with the tag line "Bound to make you feel better about your own life". You might be wondering, How will I know if I'm going to enjoy this fine comedy programming? Well,this SF Gate article will give you a quite lengthy review of the show, but here's a good start to see if this is going to be on your must see tv list.

So here's a good test of whether you're going to immediately add "The Sarah Silverman Program" to your TiVo or instead seek an injunction from the FCC: Silverman is discussing -- with her dog, Doug -- the relative, uh, thickness and plentitude, of her younger sister's pubic hair and says this: "Her vagina looked like Cat Stevens' face."
I think it certainly deserves a shot.